

We fill the dining room with lemon squares,
rolled dates, braided cookies, all dusted
with confectionary sugar, mounded on bone
china. A tray of apricot brandy is passed
and everyone, even the children, take a swig,
spirits for the unbearable. Sweet bread, holy bread,
we offer our condolences twisted and baked into challah.
We fill hollow watermelon shells with balls of honeydew
and cantaloupe, with a touch of lemon so it doesn’t=t turn.
We compose plates for those who suffer: Here=s a hot cross
bun or roast beef on a plain roll. The food keeps coming
through the door, each friend, each loved one, holding their grief
in a paper bag with handles, on a tray covered
with Saran wrap. No one eats their own dish,
they know this sorrow. They sample a piece, a sliver,
of what all the others have brought, have laid on the table.